EP 99: How to Avoid Controversial Topics at Thanksgiving: Tips for a Peaceful Holiday

holidays intergenerational connection podcast Nov 20, 2025

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SHOWNOTES:

In this episode, I share how I approach Thanksgiving and the tricky family conversations that can come with it. I talk about why I try to be proactive during holiday gatherings, using simple communication tips to keep things warm, positive, and enjoyable for everyone. I also share how I redirect discussions to avoid unnecessary controversy including one of my favorite strategies: creating a “favorite things” list to guide meaningful conversations. My hope is to help you enjoy a holiday filled with connection, gratitude, and less stress.

 

Highlights:

00:00 - Introduction to Thanksgiving Conversations

03:18 - Proactive Conversation Strategies

08:43 - Tools for Meaningful Family Interactions

 

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